Dream. Believe. Create.

This became my new motto shortly after separating from my husband nearly a year and a half ago.... After being smothered to death in a very controlling relationship for years I had lost track of who I was and everything I enjoyed in life. So, as soon as I got out I felt like I had been set free! Finally I could get on with the process of rediscovering who I was and what I wanted to do in life.

I decided straight away to spend more time doing the things that I enjoy as well as the things that I have to do. I slowly became a believer in positive thinking (which I used to think was a load of bull) and more importantly for once I started to believe that everything was possible and that I could have whatever future I wanted.

There have been many emotional ups and downs through the process so far, but for the most part there have been more ups and my life is definitely 100% better than before! I am so thankful that I had the strength to get out of that situation and believe that there could be another future. Now I am focusing on the dream and create part. Slowly I am creating the life that I want.

I imagine there are a lot of other people out there who can relate to my situation or at least parts of it so that's why I have decided to make a blog about it. If nobody follows or reads at least I will have a record of my journey to look back on and see how much I have grown... and hey its cheaper than therapy. Yes I have an acquired sense of humour, but I think its kind of endearing really.

So if you can relate, are interested in my journey, or just need something to do when your bored please feel free to follow and comment on here.

Remember to always continue to dream big, believe in yourself and create your own destiny!

Toni x